Not getting into your first choice
Number 1, I hope you are applying to colleges you would enjoy going to. I discourage students from having a "first choice omg if I don't get in my life is over" college. There isn't just one college you would love, there are several. Honest. The more popular the college, the less control you have. Never let a college tell you what YOU are worth. Obviously your "second choice" college knows what you are worth, and they want you on their campus. Number 1 doesn't know what they are missing. Remember this: you are being judged according to criteria you would NEVER use to judge someone else, and no one will ever judge YOU again by these criteria. Immerse yourself in the joy of going to your new first choice, I am betting you will be very successful and happy there.