UVa has always stressed student self-governance. This has led us with a lot of priveleges that you don't see at other schools. For example, our University Justice Committee and Honor Committee are both completely governed by students. Juries on the Honor Committee are composed only of students.
I'm President of the American Indian Student Union here at UVa. Our student group is focused on launching both public events and support systems centered on UVa. You could say that AISU is a success story of how administrators and faculty take students seriously at UVa. Just a year ago, there weren't ANY support systems in place or events about American Indian culture! Now, with the help of other Natives of AISU, my group has established a presence here at the University, sparking relations with the Office of the Dean of Students, Office of Undergraudate Admissions, Office of the Provost, and Office of the President, just to name a few. It was through student involvement at UVa that Natives have finally arrived at the University!
Students that live in hall-style dorms do leave their doors open. I know mine was always open when I was in my room and not sleeping. We would all visit each other occasionally when our doors were open. Some of my strongest friendships at UVa still come from the days of when I lived in a first-year dormitory.
Athletic events are wildly popular at UVa, especially football, men's basketball, and men's lacrosse. The people of Charlottesville enjoy coming out and watching events, too. One of the best things about UVa's football games is that all students can attend all games, if they like. The student section is large enough to accommodate every student that shows up. Basketball ticket distribution is more restricted, but most students can still get into most games without any hassle.
The dating scene is okay, I guess, at UVa. To be honest, I'm single myself, but that's largely because of my lack of free time because of being in engineering. The girls, in my opinion, are certainly more attractive here than in other universities. I think I saw a survey that said only 20{4a082faed443b016e84c6ea63012b481c58f64867aa2dc62fff66e22ad7dff6c} of UVa students classify themselves as in a relationship. UVa students, to be honest, are usually too busy during the week doing homework to have relationships.
Partying at UVa is a pretty big deal. Guys put on their best polos and shorts and head out to Rugby Road on Fridays, Saturdays, and, for some, Thursdays. "Going out to Rugby Road" usually means going to a fraternity party. Most people I know enjoy going out at least once a week, but only when the weather is nice. This limits the partying to August through October and April. I would like to think of most UVa students as sensible party-goers, though. The vast majority of students that I know only go out on the weekends, and sometimes not every weekend. This isn't to say that the only parties are at fraternities, of course. I've been to parties at other people's apartments or houses, too, but usually only upperclassmen go to those. Even those who don't drink often go to parties; no one will bother you if you don't want to have a beer. Partying isn't the only way we socialize, either, and there are a few people who prefer to stay away from parties, which is perfectly fine. There are lots of ways to hang out with others without the typical party scene.
Last weekend I chilled with my mates Bjorn, Gavin, and Phil, and we had fondue at my house with some Halo. 'Twas pretty sweet. Saturday night I had some friends from home visit me, and we went out to Rugby Road. Sunday was all homework. Ugh.
There's plenty to do here that doesn't involve drinking. We have ice skating downtown, intramural sports, the biggest hot tub on the East Coast, and a ton of restaurants. General chilling is popular here, like sitting out by the Lawn, meeting friends at Starbucks, or simply chatting it up while watching TV in the dorm or apartment.