What are your experiences with different racial, cultural, LGBT, religious, socio- economic, international, etc. groups on campus?
I’m gay, but never really participated in MOQA (Midd Open Queer Alliance). There were kind of two factions of gay kids on campus – the hipster, Mill-member, radio station gay kids, and the MOQA gay kids. I was a member of the former contingent. I did go to one MOQA meeting like the first week of Freshman year…but I never went back. Anyway, the gay community at Midd is weird. MOQA throws a drag ball that is sort of well attended, but if there were a Mill party the same night, I’d probably go there. MOQA also builds a closet every year for coming out week; every year it’s destroyed anonymously. Then the cycle repeats. It’s lame. There are more gay men than women on campus. I had a girlfriend for most of college; she never went to MOQA, either.
How would you describe a typical [College] student?
The stereotypes are kind of accurate when it comes to describing the majority of Midd kids. My friends are artistic, motivated, creative, smart, alternative, open-minded, funky, nerdy-cool, etc…but also predominantly white, rich-ish, and from the east or west coast.
What kind of student would feel out of place?
I mean, I felt kind of out of place – not because I felt excluded or lonely exactly; I had lots of friends and a great time, but…well, I’m a heavily tattooed Jewish lesbian from NYC, surrounded for the most part by preppy athletes from CT or “just outside of Boston.” If I wanted to “fit in,” I should have gone somewhere else.
What do most students wear to class?
It ranges from pastel and pearls to pajamas...I’d say the majority appear “neat” and “put-together,” but save the serious dressing up for weekends.
Describe a typical conversation overheard on your campus.
Is there a significant minority community at [College]?
Eh, sort of. The Posse program is definitely visible and vocal, and there are a lot of international students.
Do different types of students interact?
Again, sort of. In class, definitely. Outside of class, it’s cliquey, but I think there’s a cool sort of overlapping between various “minority” groups – like, anyone who isn’t the typical J. Crew Midd kid, regardless of whether “minority” status is because of race or style of dress or whatever. [Which is of course not to render race and style of dress equivalent; it’s just a comment on the Midd community.]
There are four tables of students in the cafeteria. Describe them.
Really there are three cafeterias. Proctor is for alternative kids. Ross is for jocks and preps. Atwater is for the outdoorsy types.
Where are most [College] students from?
Right outside of Boston.
What financial backgrounds are most prevalent?
$$$$$.
Are students active in campus politics?
Not particularly. It’s sort of the same students over and over again. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a huge number of students gather for much of anything when it comes to politics.
Where do most [College] students land on the political spectrum?
Liberal, ish. But far from radical.