This is sort of abstract, but I would like to see more community at Wesleyan, as in school-wide community. There is plenty of it within the various groups, but there isn't a general communal sense, which I think comes from the surplus of (sometimes desperate) individualism on campus. Coming from a high school with a total of 400 students, Wesleyan has been the perfect size for me: small enough that I've not felt lost in the crowd or unable to connect with professors because of huge class sizes, but also big enough that by the end of senior year, there are still people in my class year who I have never seen before. Peoples' reactions are totally dependent on geography and demographics: if I'm in my small hometown in California, most people have never heard of it, but some people confuse it with Wellesley; if I'm on the East Coast, most people will have heard of it, but the chances are higher that they'll think it's Wellesley. If people do know the school, invariably they'll say "Oh, what a great school." but I think that's a pretty generic response when talking about small liberal arts colleges. With that also often comes the judgment about how much it costs to go here, which is not totally unwarranted.
This year, I spend the majority of my time in the library, at the gym for cross country or track practice, in the film screening room, at the places on campus where they sell food, or in my or my friends' senior woodframe houses.
College town? I don't really think so, though Wesleyan is trying its damndest to gentrify or "revive" Middletown, which has been in an economic slump for a long time. Main Street is full of restaurants and coffee shops, and has definitely become more boozhie (or however you spell the slang for "bourgeois") since I was a freshman. But there still aren't any legit music venues and unless you're hungry or want to see a movie or need to buy some booze from the liquor store or vitamins from the drug store, you're outta luck.
The administration seems a little disconnected from the student body, try as they might to bridge the gap. There's a ridiculous amount of bureaucracy. But we've got this new young President Roth, who seems to be trying to turn things around...we'll see how that goes.
The biggest controversy by far this year has been the new dining service. There have been issues with the food and with the service, which is pretty much just the fallout of breaking peoples' habits. But most importantly, there have been huge issues between the food service workers union and the dining service company. Benefits and hours have been cut, there have been unwarranted firings, and the general manager is pretty much a pariah among the food service workers and much of the student body. Workers and students have rallied to the cause, and I think things may be getting better, but they aren't totally resolved, either.
School pride? No. At least not in the pep rally sense. People are quick both to criticize Wes from within and to defend it from without.
From what I gather, Wesleyan is a pretty unusual place as far as small liberal arts colleges go. But that also may be inflated by hype and self-importance. One thing that is unusual and very very cool is that the majority of seniors get to live in real woodframe houses owned by the University. The downside is that pretty much everyone has to live in university housing all four years. Oh, and everyone, even seniors, is required to be on a meal plan, which is pretty much highway robbery.
Wesleyan students love to complain. Pick your issue.