The best thing about Conn College, for me is the student body. While Conn is not racially diverse, it is diverse in "types" meaning students have a broad range of interests; the school does not simply sports oriented or arts oriented, there is a great balance. The students are positive and very well-rounded: most play at least one sport, are in a couple of clubs, and put considerable care into their studies.
Downtown New London gets a worse rep than it deserves. The problem is not the city but the lack of transportation: downtown has galleries, cafes, bars, and a nice "progressive" atmosphere, but it is not close to campus and the "camel van" is inconvenient and unreliable.
The campus itself is gorgeous with old stone buildings and a view of the Long Island Sound and Thames River. There are hundreds of acres to hike around--a resource often neglected by the student body. I have had great experiences with dorms and they tend to be spacious; Sophomores are pretty much garenteed singles, which is great, and all dorms are an equal mix off all classes which really helps breakdown age barriers and create an integrated community. They have been improving the athletic facilities, and will have a totally new fitness center by next year. The library is not very attractive or luxurious, but is large and sufficient for student research, and is part of a consortium with Trinity and Wesleyan, so finding the books I need has never been a problem. The problem with the campus is that the physical area of where there are actually buildings is only about 90 of the campus' 750 acres, add that to the fact that we are surrounded by woods and the campus can feel clostrophobic.
People's reaction when I tell them I go to Conn College various: those who know what Connecticut College is are impressed, and those who don't ask about UConn basketball. In the Boston area, where I am from Conn is quite prestigious, so I was suprised to find out that was not the case elsewhere. The reason much of the student body seems to be wealthy is because NESCAC schools seem to attract private school students who have the oppertunity to learn about schools through ample college counseling as opposed to mere word of mouth. But let me put in this way: I came Conn know that most people would not have heard of my school, but that people that mattered (grad schools, jobs) would know my school-- the lack of of a name does not seem to hurt the many Conn students who go on to some of the best grad schools and prestigious financial institutions after graduation.
Many students complain that all there is to do on weekends is drink. I have not felt limited to drinking. What I really like about Conn's party scene is the Friday break, meaning, at Conn people generally party on Thursday and Saturday leaving Friday as a night for relaxation. Every Friday the school hosts indie bands at the student center for "Friday Nights Live," there are also student performances, films, and a generally "low-key" atmosphere. This adds a nice break to the weekend. As far as Thursday and Saturday: there is a lot of drinking. Its a work hard/play hard type of school, and many feel that all there is to do is go to a keg (which are held in dorm common rooms) drink in friends' rooms, go then go to the student center which serves as a holding tank for drunk students. It took some searching for me to realize that, while this is the easiest and most common weekend activity, it is by no means all there is to do. Students make oppertunities: Conn's large music community plays a part in this. "MOBROC" the society of bands on campus hosts concerts, djs compete and host dance parties, on campus apartments host theme parties; and then there is always off campus: Providence and New Haven, both of which have great night life are only 45 minutes away, and Boston and New York are two hours respectively. Downtown New London offers a veriety of bars and venues. Ultimately, however, this is a small isolated college, and drinking and socializing is the typical method of blowing off steam.
A new president and dean arrived in 2006 who have ambitious plans that seem to be paying off: in the last year, alone, dozens of renovations have occured around campus, our endowment has increased by $60,000,000, and admissions statistics have changed favorably. As a result, Conn seems to be on an up-swing and there is a positive consensus around campus about the changes that are occuring. The administration, however, tends to baby the students, leading to the nickname "camp Conn".
Lastly, I think saying any school is "too small" or "too large" is not a helpful comment because it is part of the nature of the school, not a problem with it; if Conn is too small then hundreds of schools are too small... if NYU is too big, then hudreds of schools are too big. Being a small school is an essential part of the Conn College experience: there is a strong sense of community; professors and students form close relationships; and one becomes an important part of the pace and lifeblood of the school after a year or so and finding their "niche".